Sexuality is conceived from a very limited definition by the mass cultural media, being mostly represented from a traditional, heterosexual, masculine point of view and among people without any kind of dysfunction or disability. The coitocentric view proposes orgasm as the only marker of success and penetration as the only possible way. This fact not only leaves out anyone who does not fit the normative expectations, but also generates all kinds of pressures for those who try to do so.
Sexologists constantly deal with the consequences of the lack of an educational approach that balances the media messages. In a context of virtually no sex education, the media provide a very closed view to those who seek to initiate their sexuality. The problems of blockages and anxieties around sexuality often stem from wanting to imitate the external aspect of the normative conception of sex rather than seeking pleasure from one's own desire. For example, the exploration of pleasure beyond genital stimulation is ignored; a tendency that is also reflected in the sex toy market, which is developed solely for genital areas.
Professionals emphasise full body self-exploration with the aim of getting to know one's own tastes and needs. In this exploration, touch becomes fundamental as a way to find less conventional erogenous zones, which can bring a lot of pleasure without resorting only to the genitals. Therefore, it can be concluded that tactile and proprioceptive work is a fundamental part in the development of one's own sexuality and in the construction of a healthy sexual life. Becoming more aware of one's body is fundamental to finding one's own tastes beyond what the norm dictates.